My fiancee and I will be paying for our rehearsal dinner. Since we will be having the wedding in Los Gatos and his family will be staying there, we'd like to have the rehearsal dinner nearby for convenience sake. With the size of my family and his, I think we might have about 85 people (kids included)!! How in the world can we manage to pay for a rehearsal dinner of this size in an expensive place like Los Gatos?!!