I was shooting for MAYBE a 150-180 person wedding.... right now it is well over 200... and I know our families will be expecting us to drop friends off the guest list before the family. But I am not about to get married in front of a bunch of strangers to me that are "family" that our mothers just insisted we MUST invite... What can I do?? I don't want to lose all my friends, but I dont want to hurt my mom or future mother in law's feelings... Its a difficult situation...and I don't even know anywhere in Savannah that accomodates that many for a decent price?? Any help would be greatly appreciated!!!!