I am a former knottie who lives in Kansas City, Missouri, but my husband's family is from North Carolina. We are trying to plan an engagement party for my brother-in-law and his future bride in the Raleigh area..and am having little luck on the internet. We'd like to do a cocktail-type party, but more on the casual side for 30 or so people. We have a mix of drinkers and non-drinkers, so a bar really isn't an option. Any suggestions would be great! We're thinking of doing having it in mid-October.