my fiance and have decided that at the moment we do not have the money for a wedding, but our hearts are set on getting marrie and later on down the line haveing an appropriate wedding in a church surrounded by family and all that good stuff. For right now we want to go to the hall of justice with just a few family members and then a small dinner afterwards with just a few close friends as well as the few family members that attended. My question is, since its not an actually weding yet it is us celebrateing our love, i feel its a little over the top to do the whole beautiful poofy dress and tuxedo thing. he is going to wear a suit, but what is something that i can wear??