Im a bridemaid in a wedding thats in a couple weeks. The brides bachlorette is this weekend... here is a short version of what happened:
1)planned date for bachlorette and time
2) then changed
3)changed again
4) and again (all these changes were done by MOH - not me)
5) told them i couldn't make it to the first part of the bachlorette party - an activity before dinner- because i have to work.
6) one of the bridesmaids yelled at me and said im horrible and i should get someone to cover my shfit
7) i'm a makeup artist - there is no one to cover my shift. someone hired me to do a photo shoot so i can't just be a no show or get someone else - I WAS HIRED.
8) she told me not to justify it to her cause she doesn't care about my excuses
9) i cant change the timing of the shoot so i can only come to the dinner and now shes going on and on. being a total b*tch,
10) i asked where dinner was and she told me its a secret so i said "why can't i know? i'm a bridesmaid!" and she dodged the question. she later told me that i wasn't allowed to know because she didn't want me or any else invited to show up without pre paying for dinner - PRE PAYING FOR DINNER?!!? it's an all you can eat place.... this isn't some $100 per person meal.... who pre pays the MOH for a dinner...we will all be there?!?!? so i spoke to one of the bridesmaids and said i'd bring money and not to worry and i finally got told where dinner is
this whole thing has left a sour taste with me and I don't even want to go anymore. If i didn't feel horrible for doing that to the bride i'd def not go....
Orly Kahn
*Makeup Artist*
www.orlykahn.carbonmade.com