Le Jardin in Woodbridge is it!! Their prices are better than any I have been able to find and in the off-season the room cost is included in the per/person cost. WE were able to have a tasting dinner before we had to sign anything. The decor would not have been my first choice but the food was great.
They brought the price down a lot due to the wedding being in February and they compromised on a lot.
Just wanted to post because I am so excited now!! And if anyone isn't partial to their date, try off-season.