How much are you ladies spending on your cake?? My FI and I went to a tasting yesterday and the cake we designed ended up totaling close to $900. I didn't think wedding cakes would be more than 500, I mean, it's just cake. Now I'm thinking..if I just bake cupcakes myself...we could use the money towards more days on our HM! That could be tacky though. I've always dreamed of a beautiful cake at my wedding. ugh, I'm flustered.