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Inviting parish priest?

Hi everyone! My fiance and I are marrying in our "home" parish... but neither of us attend often. (I go to grad school in another state and often go to Mass there; he usually attends with his family in a neighboring parish.)

FH's best friend was recently ordained and will be performing our wedding (not in his home parish or diocese). Obviously, he's invited (and coming, and riding in the limo!) to the rehearsal dinner and reception. However, we're not doing our marriage prep meetings with him, we're doing them with the parish priest.

My question is, do we invite the parish priest to the rehearsal dinner or reception? He's not performing either the rehearsal or the ceremony, but we are meeting and talking with him about pretty serious stuff three times before the wedding. Like I mentioned before, we don't attend Mass there regularly right now, so we also don't know him very well outside of the prep sessions.

Re: Inviting parish priest?

  • mica178mica178 member
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    edited December 2011
    If you develop a friendship with him over the course of your marriage prep, I would.  Is he the parish priest for your parents, or have they moved out of the area too?  You don't have to send out invitations until 8 weeks before your wedding, so you have time to think about it.
  • katetwkatetw member
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    edited December 2011
    My parents actually live about 1500 miles away. I am registered in this particular parish because I will be living there in May, and because up until recently I attended Mass with FH almost every Sunday, so I figured when I left my last parish (because I finished school and moved out-of-state), it would be good to just register there.

    So, in short, we're the only two people in our families that belong there, and we're not there often at the moment.

    He's a great guy, at least as far as we've learned in the one session we've done so far, I just didn't know if that was appropriate or weird or what.
  • edited December 2011
    I would say YES! If you are doing Marriage prep with him and he is the "parish priest" then its only appropriate to invite him. It's one extra person.
  • LouWho19LouWho19 member
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    edited December 2011
    Since he's doing your prep, I think it's only appropriate to invite him.  My guess is he would make the ceremony if he can and might stop by the reception but I doubt he'd stay long since he won't know anyone.
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  • katetwkatetw member
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    edited December 2011
    Thanks everyone! That's what I thought, but I wanted to be sure it didn't seem strange!
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