Are any of you posting banns before the wedding? I want to and I thought it was required...but I guess so much anymore it's not. My next question is we're getting married at FI's church using my priest...so do we post banns at one church or both?
you dont post the banns, the church does. our church runs them for three weeks leading up to teh wedding. in the old days, they were posted at both the brides adn the groom's parishes. ours were only posted at our parish that we attend together.
I would have liked to; it would have saved us the cost of a marriage license. But our priest told us it would be easier and safer to just get the marriage license. Apparently some churches in my archdiocese have had some issues with banns in the past and gotten reprimanded by the city for it.
In my parish (where we got married)it was required to have them posted in the bullitin so we did so. We also need a marriage liscence. I did not know that this was optional anywhere. I have always seen them.
Calypso - in Ontario, if you provide proof of the issuance of banns, they waive the marriage license fee. You do still get a license though. Perhaps I didn't phrase it correctly. Not sure if any similar rules exist for other religious denominations.
When I mentioned it to the priest he was like well...sure we can do that. All the different parishes I grew up in always posted them. Granted my wedding is the first in the church in a few years but still...that hasn't changed
Ours were printed in the bulletin for the three weeks prior to our wedding. As far as I know, they were only printed at my parish (which is where we were getting married). I was under the impression that they were required.
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It just surprised me that it's not that common any more. Both FI and I always saw them posted. It was also told to me that too it was letting the congregation know of the up coming wedding because technically you don't have to be invited to the mass to attended because it is a community event. I do wonder if any strange old ladies will crash...
Re: Posting Banns
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Repeat this to your self: My Wedding Party is made of my family and friends and I should treat them as such.
DOR and AMA
2/12-5/12: 4 IUI cycles = all BFN;
7/12: DE IVF # 1 (with ICSI)- 20R, 16M, 14F, 5DT of 2 blasts (4AB & 3BB); 6 frosties = BFN;
Lupus anticoagulant initially high, then found to be normal on hematology consult;
Follow up testing in September all clear;
Started synthroid for "high normal" TSH;
FET # 1- late October 2012- BFP on FRER; beta # 1- 21(low), beta # 2- 48 (still low), beta # 3- 132, beta # 4- 1,293; beta # 5- 5,606; last beta- over 100,000. First u/s 11/21- heard heartbeat
12/12- Officially an OB patient!
Keeping fingers crossed
Everyone is welcome!