Hey ladies! I have a few questions about donations and tipping information that you all might be able to help me out with. I realize that a couple of people have already asked about how much to give the priest, but my situation is a little bit different. My church is not charging us a fee since it is my family's home parish. However, my parish recently has a new priest who we don't really know very well, so permission was granted for us to use another priest from a different parish that my fiance and I have a more personal relationship with and have known for several years...this is also who will be doing the pre-cana with us. I was wondering not only how much to give the priest that is officating our ceremony (who is from a different parish), but should we also donate money to my parish as well for allowing us to marry there? Also, on average, how much do musicians usually charge or expect? My parish allows us the option of using their musicians (for a fee I'm assuming) or bringing in someone else we know. I just wanted to have an idea of how much to give before we started asking around. I hope all this is clear...and thanks in advance!!