I have talked to my priest. I have talked to his pastor. Both sides tell us why the other side is better and we should just convert to the others branch. However, my fiance and I have moved past this, love each other immensely, know that as far as before the wedding goes, neither one of us wants to convert because it's how we were raised and how we grew up with God.
My problem is, I have always dreamed of getting married somewhere different, somewhere totally unique to my fiance and I. Problem. That place is an aquarium. Another problem. Both sides of my family are pushing for an all out Catholic ceremony in a Catholic church and would not be satisfied with a blessing in the church with a seperate secular ceremony in the aquarium. Grooms whole side is not Catholic, but protestant and just doesn't want the ceremony in the church b/c they can't receive communion. (I tried saying, let's do it without communion in the church, but my Dad said absolutely not)
Do I give up on what I want for my wedding ceremony to please my family and piss off the grooms family, or do I piss off my family and go with what I want and live with the consequenses. I just don't know what to do anymore.