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Catholic Weddings

I'm married! (preview pro-pix included!)

(I don't know why these pictures aren't coming up bigger... :-( I hope they do in the final post...)

We had a gorgeous day...lovely blue sky, crisp and chilly late October weather, with some beautiful leaves as backdrop.

(I was shivering a bit here!)

Here's my absolute favorite pic-- 


and a non-pro pic (we don't have many yet of inside the church...)


It was a beautiful ceremony. We had a choir of about 10 of our friends (many professional musicians,) sing some really awesome music. Mozarts Ave Verum, Biebl's Ave Maria, Caccini's Ave Maria, Durufle's Ubi Caritas were all fabulous...but we had overestimated their abilities given the rehearsal time, and they attempted the Sanctus/Benedictus/Agnus from Byrd's Mass in 4 voices. Which was ok, but at times...painful. :-(
Small groups of them also sang the chant propers, which were fabulous.

The processional, you know, like every single bride's dream her entire life? And for someone who herself is a professional church musician and kind of a control freak? was somehow a miscommunication and I ended up walking down the aisle to this congregational introit that no one knew, which was supposed to be done during the incensing. I. was. so. mad. It literally kind of ruined the rest of the ceremony for me. 

That, plus other thoughts going through my head made the ceremony an...interesting experience for me. I tried sooo hard to not be a bridezilla and to remember what the day was really about....but still, I experienced some very strange emotions that were pretty unexpected.

I don't really have any pictures of the reception yet, but it was really fun and wonderful. DH's family and friends were all from OOT and stayed at the hotel where the reception was at, and I was a little sad to realize at some point when I looked around that it seemed like most of my friends had left relatively early, and it was DH's side that was still there, but they were rocking out on the dance floor! 

Overall, I'm glad it's over. I'm still adjusting to my "new life," I'm sure it will take quite some time. And...it hasn't really hit me.
Well...let's just say...it was really weird, cuz we were in "phase 2" when we got married, so for quite some time after that, everyone is like, "So how's married life?" And it kind of depressed me that the only response I could think of was, "umm...it feels exactly like we're still just dating but living together and sharing a bed!" But of course I just smiled and said, "wonderful." or whatever.

And that's all for now! :-)
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Re: I'm married! (preview pro-pix included!)

  • Riss91Riss91 member
    Knottie Warrior 1000 Comments 25 Love Its Name Dropper
    edited December 2011
    So beautiful!!! Sorry about all the little music snafus. I know how hard it is to have spent a lot of time carefully picking everything out and then have it not really come together. I bet a couple months from now you won't remember as many of those details.

    Please share more pics when you get them!
  • Calypso1977Calypso1977 member
    Knottie Warrior 2500 Comments 25 Love Its First Answer
    edited December 2011
    that shade of blue on your BM's is gorgeous. 
  • chelseamb11chelseamb11 member
    2500 Comments Third Anniversary 25 Love Its Name Dropper
    edited December 2011
    Gorgeous! Congratulations to you both!!!
  • edited December 2011
    Beautiful!  Congratulations!
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  • caitriona87caitriona87 member
    Fifth Anniversary 100 Comments
    edited December 2011
    Lovely! Congratulations!

    I'm sorry you were disappointed with some of the music, but I think Riss is right; as time goes on that stuff will fade away. I was furious about a couple of things after our wedding but now they seem either totally insignificant or funny. I hope you find the same!
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  • edited December 2011
    Gorgeous! Thanks for sharing the pics. :)
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  • edited December 2011
    You. Look. Absolutely. GORGEOUS!

    I will echo previous posters. The first few days after the wedding, I could not stop fretting about the fact that my dress had been too long so I couldn't hold onto my dad's arm walking down the aisle. I kept thinking, "I should've done this or that." But I finally had to just let go of that and concentrate on the lovely, gorgeous, sublime feeling that I had throughout the ceremony.

    A funny thing, actually...I was so set on having Pachelbel's Canon at my wedding. The whole story of finding a violin player, paying a deposit, then finding a quartet I wanted more and having to sarifice the deposit...blah, blah, blah! And you know what? Once I started down that aisle and I laid eyes on my husband, I literally don't remember hearing a single note of that music. It is kind of eerie to think about.

    Trust me...just focus on all the lovely things about the ceremony, and the little kerfluffles will fade to the background.

    CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!!! And again, you look so beautiful!

    Linda
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  • aghouston86aghouston86 member
    Eighth Anniversary 500 Comments
    edited December 2011
    Beautiful, congrats doll!
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  • edited December 2011
    Gorgeous! Congrats again!

    Our musician messed up a few times as well, but at the end of the day we were married and that is all that matters.
  • edited December 2011
    GORGEOUS!  So happy for you!!! 

     

  • mica178mica178 member
    5000 Comments Fourth Anniversary 5 Love Its
    edited December 2011
    Beautiful! Congratulations!
  • newlyseliskinewlyseliski member
    1000 Comments Fourth Anniversary Combo Breaker
    edited December 2011
    Congratulations and beautiful pictures!!!  Sorry about all the ceremony music issues... I can only imagine how frustrating that must be to you as a liturgical musician!!!  Beautiful selections :)

    [QUOTE] And...it hasn't really hit me. Well...let's just say...it was really weird, cuz we were in "phase 2" when we got married, so for quite some time after that, everyone is like, "So how's married life?" And it kind of depressed me that the only response I could think of was, "umm...it feels exactly like we're still just dating but living together and sharing a bed!" But of course I just smiled and said, "wonderful." or whatever. And that's all for now! :-)
    Posted by lalaith50[/QUOTE]

    Ditto this.  We had the exact same issue and had to make the same awkward response... lol
  • ootmother2ootmother2 member
    Tenth Anniversary 5000 Comments 25 Love Its First Answer
    edited December 2011
    how beautiful!

    you were extra blessed that day :)
  • lalaith50lalaith50 member
    1000 Comments Third Anniversary 5 Love Its Name Dropper
    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/cultural-wedding-boards_catholic-weddings_im-married-preview-pro-pix-included?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Cultural%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:615Discussion:254180a1-3251-41c8-8ff0-a0e3930ef7c5Post:11ece60a-92b3-496e-a609-6ca9712eaf7a">Re: I'm married! (preview pro-pix included!)</a>:
    [QUOTE]) Ditto this.  We had the exact same issue and had to make the same awkward response... lol
    Posted by newlyseliski[/QUOTE]
    <img src="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/scripts/tinymce/plugins/emotions/images/smiley-laughing.gif" border="0" alt="Laughing" title="Laughing" /> I'm so glaad someone else understands! Even DH didn't quite seem to understand why that question annoyed me so much! :-)
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  • doctabroccolidoctabroccoli member
    1000 Comments
    edited December 2011
    Hooray!  You look beautiful!  I know how you feel about how the married life thing is.  People ask, and all I can think to say is "Exactly like before?  But we can have babies now?  Uhhhhh......."

    And eventually the annoyances will fade.  I ended up hating my hair the day of the wedding.  The chick put way too much hair spray in, and it looked disgusting.  I was stressing out until we got our pro pics that we had paid so much money for this photographer I loved and my hair was going to look terrible in all the pictures.  Thankfully most of them looked okay :).  It still bothers me a little, but it's slowly fading!
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