I did some research in the Lancaster area on venue rentals that allow weddings and the reception at the same place. I have to say I really couldn't find anything at this price point for 75 people. I know a lot of municipal buildings, VFW's and the such are cheap but I wasn't looking to go THAT cheap. I'd prefer to get married outdoors. I know who I want to cater, but it isn't saving me a thing to have someone cater unless I can find a less expensive venue.
I'm not weird about talking $ but a lot of folks won't discuss this subject in actuals and I've found the phrase "affordable" isn't the same for all. If your not comfortable with public specifics please PM me.
Perhaps I need to haggle more? I know this tends to work for food service but I'm not as confident it will work when trying to book a venue.