I know that it is appropriate to not have bare shoulders in church, bride, and bridesmaids. However, I will be wearing a veil, but do the girls "have" to have a shawl, is it bad to have bare shoulders? The dresses are not low cut but they are strapless. I spoke to my priest he just kind of gave me a look like "I would cover them". But did not say they had to be.
Not sure what to do, and I'm scared if i show up that day with no shawl for the girls, they will not let us perform the mass.
Any insight would be helpful. TIA