I am getting married in about a year but have not met with my priest yet. When I told him I was engaged and asked if the Church was available he asked when I graduate from college (December) and said "Call me in August or September and we'll talk about it". My chuch is pretty "relaxed" compared to most; our priest has 3 parishes that are 15 miles apart so he has mass at one at 7:45am, my church at 9 and then his home parish at 10:30 so masses are really short and we do not sing any alleluias or anything like that.
While reading through some of these posts it sounds like there is a lot of ceremony planning that takes a lot of time. I also find it interesting the different "rules" between churches. For example, at our parish a United Candle is REQUIRED. So my question is, is there some planning that I need to be thinking about now? Or if I meet with my priest in August/September is that enough time??