We're getting married in my hometown, 8 hours away from our current residence. The priest marrying us approved us having pre-cana with our local priest and we have already filled out and turned in our Pre Marriage Inventory. We met with our local priest last weekend expecting to find out our results. After giving us a 45 minute "orientation" to his expectations of us in our counselling he tells us he's booked solid today & doesn't have any more time for us, so we now have to:
1) Meet with him again to go over our PMI results (a month from now...)
2) Attend an 8 hour pre cana class
3) Meet with him again after taking our class
4) THEN... be assigned a "Mentor Couple" to address any issues in the PMI
Is this NORMAL?!? Everyone I know who married in the church did JUST the class, or 8 one hour, one on one appointments with their priest. What's up with this task list he's given us? I fully understand the seriousness of what we're doing, but this seems overkill.
TIA