I am 30 and my FI is 39. He lives in another country but we will be having a Catholic wedding here in Michigan. His parents are divorced and can't attend. And my mom is a widow-dad died 2 yrs ago. I see alot of invitations that say the parent's name request your presence at the marriage. Do we include their names? What is standard? I just thought you did that if you were a young couple...but I didn't know. I want to be respectful however.