ok...so this is my first post but.....i have a huge dilema my sister who got married first had me as her maid of honor i had the expense account and time to do it all.... however she does not and is royaly upset that i have asked my best friend to be the maid of honor in my wedding how do i deal with this without the scene she has already put up...ie...i'm ur sister...you were my maid of honor....in edition to calling me every name in the book and not to mention she thinks she has time and wants all the "spotlight" which i might mention is killing me....this is about me not 'her' i suppose i'm just super super frustrated!!!!!