So we are finally done with our marriage classes, and last night was supposed to be our last meeting with our Priest to go over the details. When we got engaged we explained to him that my fiance's cousin is a Priest, but that he lives out of town and wouldn't be able to do marriage prep with us, and he said that is fine, since we are marrying at his church he would do marriage prep and both priests would have a part in the ceremony, but that it was fine if my fiance's cousin did the gospel and homily. We have reminded him of this a couple times throughout the classes, but last night when we were going over the ceremony he was talking about the ceremony like he was the only Priest taking part. My fiance reminded with that his cousin would be doing the mass. Our priest did not remember that we had told him (even thought we told him a couple times) and looked very hurt. He explained that he has spent a lot of time with us, and that he feels he should read the gospel and speak the homily. He did say its up to us though. We do not know what to do because the priest at our parish actually does know me, and our relationship better than his cousin, but it's tradition for his cousin to perform family ceremonies. My fiances parents said whatever we choose is fine, that they wont care either way, but we dont know what to do. We are not having the eucharist so there's not really any jobs we could have each priest do. Would it be acceptable to not have the eucharist (for reasons having to do with my family) but maybe share communion with just me and my fiance after the ceremony and have his cousin do that? I need advice any ideas to involve both priest would be great. Also I just became Catholic so this might be a really stupid question but is there a way that they can both speak during the homily? Sorry this is so long!