I don't know if anyone else is having this issues, but I'm having the hardest time getting a church!! Let me explain a little.
I'm eastern rite catholic, Malankara Catholic, we have two mission in the south one in Houston one here in Garland (Dallas), Texas. All others are up north. I live 45 mins from Garland in Arlington. So when it came to planning the wedding, which my boyfriend lives in Fort worth, it didn't make sense to go all the way to Garland to do it. Plus the church only holds 150. My boyfriend is registered at the other eastern rite church and it's about the same size as mine in the same area. Needless to say we wanted to have the wedding at another church and I'm having terrible issues.
The other churches don't understand why we want it another church and even after I explain most don't know what an eastern catholic is and says I have to be a member there for a year before I can even think about it. Is anyone else having this problem? Is there something I can do? We are planning to leave our churches and join a latin rite once we are married, but I can't do it now, I'm the national youth president. What can I do??
Sidenote: I know the Bishop in the diocese is it okay to ask him to do me a favor regarding this?