FI and I just got back from our first meeting with our Pre Cana sponsor couple. I think both couples were nervous (they just got certified, we are their first couple!) but we took our FACET (similar to FOCCUS) and just got to know each other and set expectations for the remaining meetings. They are very down to earth and are interfaith as well, so both of us felt very comfortable. I actually am really looking forward to our next meeting!