I am Lutheran (elca if it matters) and FI was raised Catholic. He doesn't practice now and doesn't recieve communion when he does go. I know that since the wedding will be at my church and not in a Catholic church with a priest our marriage won't be recognized with the Catholic church and he won't be able to recieve in the future. This bothered me for a while but we have talked about it and he's fine with it since I'm the more religious of the two of us. If in the future something changes and he does want it recognized, would I need to convert in order to get a convalidation? There are some things with the catholic church I don't agree with but I'd be willing to at least explore the idea of converting if he asked me to in order to resume recieving sacraments.