Hello...it's been a cloudy, gloomy, warm and windy day here in southeast Missouri. I've been home from work after having some dreadful stomach cramps...after being at DH's for the weekend (we're still living in two different places until his son finishes high school in a couple of years). He's still up there - it's deer season and with the wind, he hasn't caught his buck yet!
Probably because I miss him, I've been...ruminating...over things I "should have" done at the reception. Like having my dad and my brother make a toast. Or having a first dance. I think I didn't want to bother my dad or my brother, and my groom is so shy, I didn't think he'd want a first dance. At the time, it seemed so good to just let people relax and have a good time and not have everything be scheduled and formal...but now...
And I know it doesn't do me any good to think about these things, because I can't exactly turn the clock back and make different choices, and it was an absolutely glorious, perfect day and I shouldn't let these things interfere with my memory of it!
Perhaps it's wedding withdrawal??? Anybody else suffered from that? I wrote the last of my thank you notes today, and finally getting most of the gifts put away, so maybe that's it...
Anyway, thanks for listening...
Linda