Hi ladies. I'm planning to get married next fall. My FI and I were both raised Catholic (baptized and confirmed), but are no longer practicing Catholics (or any other religion right now). Therefore we're not looking to have a religious ceremony. However, our mothers' are still (somewhat) practicing and would like our marriage to be blessed by the church (although are not insisting that we have a church wedding). Would our only options be a ceremony in the church before we do our "big" ceremony or a convalidation after (obviously having to go through all of the procedures for it - if they would even do one for us)? Or is there someway to have a priest bless the non-religious ceremony we have? It seems that that's not possible from what I've been reading, but this is all a bit confusing so I wanted to check with people who seem to know much better than I do! Thanks.