Hello. I'm just a lurker, but had an interesting discussion with some friends and wanted some more thoughts on it. Sorry for the length!
One friend calls herself a "Liberal Catholic". She believes that the faith life she experienced while living in Latin America for a few years is the (for lack of a better word..) "best" version of Catholicism. In her view, the most imporant aspects of the faith are emphasized and lesser aspects are downplayed in that culture. So she seeks to continue that version in her life, which means she is "picking and choosing" pieces of Catholicism to follow and pieces to disregard.
A non-religious friend (never practiced Catholicism) errupted in anger over this. Calling her horrible names and screaming that there is "No such thing as a 'Liberal Catholic!'" His view is that Catholics must make unreasonable efforts to follow every single piece of doctrine and belief in order to be allowed to call him/herself "Catholic". If you pick and choose, you are no longer a Catholic.
I was struck by the impossibly high standard that he (the public and media as well) set for Catholics. But other faiths are not expected to live by the same standards. In his view, Catholic women that use birth control pills are not truly Catholic. But a Jewish man that eats a non-kosher meal is still Jewish. And a Muslim woman that misses one of her five daily prayers can still call herself Muslim.
What are your thoughts?? Is he just misinformed about Catholicism and religion in general? Have you experienced judgment when going against your faith...no matter how small a discrepancy? Has Catholic become the Voldemort of religions in discussions with people of other faiths?