BM question

nhlgirl34

I'm one of these girls who likes to have everyone happy. And when plans change I like I let those who will be effected know.......So I changed my mind about about the BM's bouquet flowers......should I really be concerned about letting them know???

I picked dresses and they know those details, which could be changing but that's another problem to deal with later. But what details should I really bother them with?

writergirl28

Is this seriously what you're worried about?? Not trying to be mean, but 1) there are plenty of other wedding things to worry about than this 2) your wedding is not as important to everyone else as it is to you (i.e. they will not care if you change their flowers as long as you're not giving them something hiddeous, which I'm sure you're not!) 3) It is still your decision in the end what the flowers are, so are you really changing the flowers again if they don't like them? I wouldn't bother telling them any extra details unless you want their advice or effects them in a major way (like you change your colors after they buy their BMs dresses or something messed up like that)

nhlgirl34

I guess I'm just worried about doing anything that would upset or piss anyone off lol

writergirl28

How would flowers piss anyone off?! As long as no one is allergic to the new flowers, you'll be fine. Besides, your BMs are your closest friends/family, do you really think they'll get upset over flowers? You're just getting stressed for no reason.

Relax! Rum helps

angelori7273

mmmm....rum....anyway, don't sweat it girl!! Flowers are the least of your worries! like writer said, your BMs are your closet family/friends...they will support whatever decision you make...when you finally make it!!