I'm the opposite of most girls on The Knot in that I feel more comfortable posting here than on the E board. I'm afraid of getting jumped there! So I thought I could bring my question here.
My BMs are planning a shower for me in early June. The theme is cooking, and since FI is an amazing cook and cooking is his obsession, they were wondering if he could make the crepes as fresh as possible right before the event. (Crepes taste best right off the griddle.) And FI is happy to help contribute to the shower. (And I know his humor, he'd be wearing my frilly apron.) As soon as the crepes are done he would not stay.
Ideally we'd have him leave before the event starts. The problem is that I know he may run over a few mins after the event starts. Or some people may be a few mins early. There may be an overlap.
Personally I am absolutely ok with that. (He's my FI, of course, I always want to see him.) But I wasn't sure if it would be rude if anyone even would spot him at all since it is a ladies-only shower?