I was raised Catholic. When my Mother & Father stepped away from the Church in my later teenaged years, I followed suite.
As I grew older, I grew farther away from the Catholic Church. A few years ago, I started to become more spiritual and began a better relationship with God. Now, I would like to return to the Church (I'm 33 yrs old.)
I started to attend Church and receive communion regularly. I just found out via Internet that I never should have taken communion since I haven't been to confession yet. Also, My husband and I recently got married (non-legally) outside a Catholic church, so I don't know if it's even okay to receive Holy Communion after I confess???
1.) I am planning on going to confession so I can begin to receive the Holy Sacrament. I have stopped taking Communion as soon as I learned it was wrong for me to do so. (I feel sick about this. It just didn't occur to me what I was doing was wrong.) I am mentioning this in my confession.
2.) Am I living in sin since I have chosen not to get a "legal" marriage? My husband and I do not want to be legally married. I plan on talking to this to a priest, but I am just wondering if anyone can shed some light for me and provide some reliable links. Now I'm wondering if I will ever get to receive Holy Communion based on my decision not to be legally married. I know Catholics who have not been married in Catholic Church still be able to receive Holy Communion, but I'm wondering if the "legal" status plays into it.
Thank you in advance for your kind input.