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Review of Marriage Prep - Aug 13 - 15

The course was refreshing. Our facilitators have been married for 36 years and they were real with us. They didn't sugarcoat any part of marriage and it was nice. FI wasn't keen on going, but I think he enjoyed most of it. I was excited to go, and ended up enjoying most of it as well. The financial management section was incredibly boring since we've done all of that together already. It was a high level review of what we already know.

First night and the first morning was talking about the phases of marriage and conflict. Things we'll run into over the first couple of years after we get married.
They then went on to talk about the ways of dealing with conflict. How to recognize what method our spouse uses and how to accept that. 
Saturday afternoon was the finance part.
Sunday afternoon we talked about how our faith plays a role in the marriage and a brief overview of the Catholic beliefs. Then we ended going over the wedding ceremony. I didn't really care for this section since it was so high level and we didn't get into a lot of detail on the ceremony. I know there were some non-Catholics there, so I understood the high level approach.
I'm also aware that the ceremony is a special thing and it should really be discussed between the bride/groom and priest.

All in all it was a good weekend. FI and I learned a few little things we didn't know the other thought, and that was good.  It also confirmed that we are very in synch with what we want out of life. I think we both needed to hear how hard marriage will be and that it's a struggle. If you work hard at it, the rewards are far beyond any conflict.

Re: Review of Marriage Prep - Aug 13 - 15

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    Meaghann17Meaghann17 member
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    edited December 2011
    I am really looking forward to our marriage prep. We have ours in January.
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    catarntinacatarntina member
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    edited December 2011
    Ya know... I liked how my instructors at my marriage prep didn't sugarcoat things either.  One couple married for 50 years -- looked happy as two newly weds sitting there -- got up and told us about the rough times they had.  They even separated for a brief time (still married, just moved to separate houses for a few months).  I liked that they didn't sugarcoat it.

    I think the financial aspect was boring too, but fiances are one of the biggest causes for arguments amongst couples.  So I think it should be talked about.

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    edited December 2011

    Great to hear! I won't start mine until we get with in 6 months.

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