so FI and i went to meet with a pastor this past tuesday and we LOVED him!!! he was so sincere and asked so many questions to really get to know the two of us. he's from a non denominational church around here but based off of christian values. my FI and i are not super religious and dont belong to a church, but we did want some religious values brought into the ceremony.the pastor recited some versions of the traditional vows (even though we found one online that we like), and i really felt like i had that AH-HA moment of........omg im REALLY getting married!!! i felt like i could have cried just knowing he was the one that is going to marry us and hearing him even say the vows to us!!!