Ok girls, I picked up my dress last night... I really like the sweeping train, but I'm not so sure I love the bustle but it's pretty much too late to do anything about that now. I decided against the 3 point English bustle and got a 3 point French bustle. I included a couple pics from my first fitting to show you what the dress used to look like compared to the final product...
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