So I found a timeline in The Knot's magazine that I tailored to our wedding. Here it is below. Feel free to chime in if it looks like I haven't allotted enough time for something:
4-4:30pm Instrumental music played while guests are seated
4:30-5pm Wedding ceremony
5-5:45pm Cocktail hour
6pm Guest head from cocktail hour into reception and find their seats
6:10pm DJ (or emcee) begins introducing the wedding party, starting with the mothers
6:20pm First Dance
6:25pm A welcome speech or blessing (still deciding). Begin toasts (by MOH and two Best Men)
6:40pm Dinner is served
7:40pm Mother-daughter dance and Mother-son dance
8:40pm Cake cutting
9:15 Bouquet Toss
9:40pm Second line parade
10pm It’s over…and time for the honeymoon to begin