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Should I invite my father's wife's daughters to the wedding?

Here is the backstory, it'll make things complicated so you'll know my dilemma.
My father cheated on my mom with someone, my mom found out and divorced my dad. Two months after the divorce was final, he married his mistress. This was almost three years ago, and after they got married, we moved in together. A few months later, the mistress/wife kicked me, my sister and my 6 month old nephew out because her daughters lied and said we stole their stuff (nothing was stolen they just didn't like us). My father, instead of sticking up for his own flesh and blood, sided with her, and let us get kicked out.

Now, I'm getting married April 10th, and I've agreed to let my father bring his wife to the wedding, only because they are married and she's his guest, not because I like her. Well now, my idiot father is telling me I have to invite her daughters, the ones who lied to get me thrown out, to the wedding because they are "his stepdaughters."

I think he's being completely ridiculous, he knows I hate them. What do you think I should do?

cnbyrd

absolutely not...
tell your father that they are simply not family and do not deserve to be treated as if they are. now if your father is helping financially pay for the wedding he (kinda) has a say on it. but i would not let him convince you to have someone at your wedding that you do not want there.

sprat85

I would not invite the "stepdaughters".  I ditto cnbyrd that they are not family. 

bananafanafofashley

Hell no. It's your wedding you can invite or not invite whoever you want. Anyway they have already proven that all they are interested in is sabotaging you life, so why would you expect them to do anything different on your wedding day? Even if your dad was paying for the entire thing I would seriously question why he would want to invite people who would do such a thing to his BLOOD daughter. That's rude!

AStoBe

I am in agreement.... no step daughters, you did not grow up with them, they are not like sisters to you.  If there is that much drama on a daily basis, do you really want it at your wedding?

sweetie1184

No. Your wedding=your decision. That is ridiculous, and I think you're being generous enough to let your dad bring his wife.

JulieS1786

Same as the other ladies.  Ultimately its not just some social function it is a big day in YOUR life and your future husbands.  These girls are obviously not someone you are close with or that you would want to share your special day with.  That would just be negative energy.  Good luck!!

teachermegs

I agree with everyone!

mbathey

I agree with everyone.....its your day....your decision.  You don't need that drama

Kristin789

I don't even understand why you went to live with your cheatin' dad and his mistress-wife.  I wouldn't invite ANY of them.  So of course I don't think you should invite his step-daughters.