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SO frustrated.....may have to cancel wedding??

Just got off the phone with FI......he is in the army and is currently in a school for training.  He is supposed to graduate Feb 25, and we are getting married March 12, which was purposeful, since he could deploy sometime after that.  Just found out he may have to attend another manadatory school for three weeks after the graduation, which would be during our wedding.  So he said, definitely don't plan on a honeymoon (glad i didn't book that this week!) and he may only be able to show up the Friday befor the wedding (orginally he was going to be with me that whole week in florida before). 

So I could handle that....although it would be stressful, making sure he got in for the rehersal and hoping we get our license somehow.  But if he has to attend the class and he can't take weekends....we basically have to cancel.  I am SO FRUSTRATED />   I have worked so hard to plan our wedding around the Army, and now they are making it even harder.  If we cancel, im saying, forget it....we are going to Vegas! 


ugh...sorry for the vent....this is the first big serious headache of the wedding thus far (besides picking a date!). 

Re: SO frustrated.....may have to cancel wedding??

  • froussosfroussos member
    First Comment
    edited December 2011

    Wow!  I'd be pretty frustrated too.  You are in my thoughts.  I hope everything works out for the best.

  • ceeceed80ceeceed80 member
    100 Comments
    edited December 2011
    ugh. i can't imagine how frustrated you must be. that really isn't cool. 

    i hope you are able to have a solid plan soon!
  • cmeyer3946cmeyer3946 member
    Tenth Anniversary 500 Comments
    edited December 2011
    ugh!!! DH is in the Navy so I know how frustrating the military is. It was going to be a stretch for him to take off the 2 weeks that he did for the wedding and honeymoon but by the grace of god, he was able to. I hope that he can get out of this class because of the circumstances.  Crossing fingers for you.
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  • edited December 2011

    Keeping you in my thoughts, I hpoe eerything works out!

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