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Dilema

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in Ohio-Cincinnati
So I'm finishing sending out the invites and my F doesn't really like this one family that I grew up around, I was in their daughters wedding and she is in mine.  His family has some problems with them, but they were REALLY good to me.  I don't want to upset me fiance by having them there, but also I don't want to hurt them when they have done a lot for me.  I felt like he wouldn't even really notice among so many people, but he thinks he will.  I don't know what to do! :(  Why can't things just be easy and everyone get along!!??? 
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  • DebbydewDebbydew member
    Ninth Anniversary 100 Comments
    edited December 2011
    That's a tough one. Maybe tell FI how much it means to you, and tell him to just think about it for a few days. Maybe he will come around.
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  • stosha1stosha1 member
    100 Comments
    edited December 2011
    Welcome to married life: the world of COMPROMISE. Tell FI how much it means. This isn't just his wedding, its yours too. If it means alot to you to invite them, tell FI that and invite them. I'm sure you've had to 'suck it up' and invite someone you didn't really want to. Point that out.
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  • jeremy.teresajeremy.teresa
    100 Comments
    edited December 2011
    I have to agree w/ Carrie on this.  If its that important to you, explain that to your FI and then do it.  If you will regret it, then you should do it.  You honestly probably won't notice they are there with the exception of a quick hello.  GL!
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