Total newbie to this board and to the site!!
I grew up in a suburb of Syracuse, but I've lived in another state for about 12 years (ahhh that's crazy). Most of my family is in the Rochester area. I am driving myself crazy trying to decide whether I should get married in the place where my fiance and I live (making it harder on family), OR in my hometown, where most of our friends would have to travel to.
Is anyone here planning a wedding "long distance?" I'm about a 5 hour drive from my parents, and I fear that if I get married there, or even somewhere in the Finger Lakes, it will be harder to pick a venue, vendors, etc.