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Help Found the perfect gown... but

So I've been looking for the "perfect" gown. I was going to borrow and wear my friends as my something borrowed but the other day we had a falling out. So now I have to find my own gown. And I did. It's perfect.

I loveee it. Love it. Love. I want it. She paid 1600$ for it down in the city and wants only 200$ for it. I know it's a super good buy! I mean really good. I kept looking at it thinking it's perfect!

I truly believe because I have not much say in my wedding on anything. (mother/family issues) I should at least have the dress I want. Is it to much for a simple wedding? And it's also my second time & hopefully last! time getting married.

I really want it. I totally love it. Even the owner held off on everyone else saying she believes the dress is meant for me. And all the other dresses I emailed/text/called on pry over 15-20 I've only head from 3 of them and then they stopped responding.

I am a little scared driving into 'Cuse alone. Like super scared. I've only been driving a few years and I've never gone more than 15mins away from the house and never thurway and never to a city or I should say big city like Utica or 'cuse. I did drive once to Utica alone. HORRIBLE. I almost got into a crash and cried both ways.

ugh it shouldn't be this hard? Maybe because it's finally setting in. this.is.it.
[hyper-ventilate here]  is it perfect or to much? it's really this or I'm thinking going in my underoos... Yes I've gotten this frustrated. What seems to hold meback?


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Re: Help Found the perfect gown... but

  • edited December 2011
    Congrats on finding your dress!  It's very pretty and princess-y.

    Don't be nervous about coming to Syracuse... it's really an easy drive.  Ask the seller to meet you just off of 81 or the Thru-way, so you don't have to mess with downtown... if driving is a really huge issue, would you consider just having the girl ship it?  You've got plenty of time...
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  • edited December 2011
    Also, sounds like you've got some serious family issues going on.  If you don't mind my asking, how old are you... since your mom seems to be running the show...

    If you need to vent/chat, let me know.  Seems like you've got a lot going on.
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    edited December 2011
    I also found a dress in Rome but it's a halter style and zips but I love the back. I really just can't decide and I feel I'm rushing it. I do have plently of time don't I?? I'm just worried about not having a dress.
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