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Night before the wedding?

This might seem like a silly question, but for those of you who live with your fiance, are you spending the night before the wedding somewhere else? I'm trying to debate if this is something I should do or if I am just being a crazy person.

Re: Night before the wedding?

  • edited December 2011
    Since all of my family is from out of the state and country I will be staying at the hotel with my family, MOH, some of my BMs and his daughter. My FI will stay at our house with his brother/best man and some of his groomsmen =)
  • edited December 2011
    We are having our ceremony and reception at a hotel and as part of the reception package, they provide a suite the day of the wedding and the night before. I am going to have all of the girls in the WP stay with me in the suite the night before and FI will stay at our house.
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  • kelklumpkelklump member
    Ninth Anniversary 500 Comments
    edited December 2011
    I am staying in a hotel on Thursday before my Friday wedding. Its your preference. I seriously thought about just staying at home and have him leave early before I got up, but it was cheap enough to stay at the hotel.
  • hccpsuhccpsu member
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    edited December 2011
    I wanted to spend the evening apart, but my fiance pitched a fit.  We're having a destination wedding and he said he wasn't paying all that money to not be with me.  It was easier to give in on this one than to fight about it, especially since I was going to see him before the ceremony anyway.
  • edited December 2011
    I live with my fiance and I am staying at my parents house the night before.
  • edited December 2011
    My fiance will stay with his parents and I will stay at our house.  My parents and sister will be staying with us so it doesn't make sense for me to leave. :)
  • edited December 2011
    I'll be staying in a hotel the night before with my BMs, sister, mom, etc.  We'll be getting ready there the day of.  My FI will be staying at home with one of his groomsmen.
  • edited December 2011
    I will be staying at OUR house (FI is moving in his stuff this weekend!) the night before because the ceremony, reception and the hotel the girls are getting ready at are all really close together by our house. FI will be at his brother's house because all he has to do is get dressed! I like the tradition of not staying together the night before.
  • edited December 2011
    I was going to stay on the sofa bed in my parents' hotel room but FI convinced me to just stay at home with him. I don't sleep well the first night in new places. I kind of feel bad that we'll see each other before the wedding but we're taking pictures before anyway. Also, this way we can exchange gifts on the wedding day and I get to see his face when he gets the b-pic book!
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  • edited December 2011
    We have a house together and are spending the night together.  There really isn't any reason for us not to.  We are seeing each other the entire day of the wedding anyway, so it doesn't make sense to split up for one night.  My mom and sister think I should stay with them down the road at my parents, but its silly for me to pack and cart all of my stuff down there and have to go right back home the next morning anyway.
  • edited December 2011
    We are staying at our house, but I am staying in our room and FI is staying in the spare room. Then he will either stay in other room or be gone by the time I am getting ready to leave for hair appointment!
  • edited December 2011
    I was an OOT brides, so I stayed at the Cincinnatian on Wed, Thurs, and Fri before my wedding.One of my bm's from NY came in on Thurs, so she stayed with me Thurs and Fri.
  • pedlimwenpedlimwen member
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    edited December 2011
    Thanks for all of the stories, ladies!
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