SO I would see all the posts about your FI's and how romantic they were and how theyd bring you flowers and I would be so jealous. I never got special treatment like that! And I hear all the romance is gone after the rings are put on anyway so I just kinda let it be that Tom is not that way and I'm fine with that. Flash forward to the honeymoon- Pretty much EVERY day he would tell me how beautiful I looked or always make sure I had what I needed- stayed in bed with me the one day I got sick. I was totally shocked and impressed! Then we get home and he still acting that way! He called me to tell me he had gone to Target and saw a new book by an author that I like so he bought it for me. Wow. That he is even in the book section blows me away. So I just wanted to share that with all of you- especially those that are getting nearer to the day and stressing out- remember that it WILL ALL BE WORTH IT. Sorry this is long if you're still reading this- thanks for hanging in there! lol