What to do, What to do.

DondadaTimes2

So about a year ago I had a balls to the wall blow out with Joshs mom over his ex g/f. Im sure some of you may remember. The ex used to call Josh every Fri and/or Sat night around 3am (prime drunk time in NYC) and beg to be in his life then scream all sorts of chit at him when he told her to f-off. Eventually she dragged me into it and had all sorts of lovely comments to and about me. Ive never met the bitch. Come on sweetie. Time to grow up. This went on for about 1.5 yrs.

So anyways, naturally I wanted to beat the piss outta the ex and Verizon wasnt offering us any help as to blocking her number and if Josh didnt answer...she'd call until he did. And then shed keep calling until SHE was done talking. Turning the phone off was usually what we had to do, but if he had to work the weekend or we needed to get up early, we were losing our alarm. It really was just more frustrating than anything.

So a yr ago i find out that MIL is sending psycho pics of my nephews and updating her on the whole family...myself and Josh included. I flipped the f out. Deleted her from fb and didnt speak to her for about 4 months. Then psycho leaves a comment on SILs wall saying "OMG I miss and love you TOO" Too? As in SIL sent it first? In hindsight, Im pretty sure it was psycho trying to get at me...it worked. I swore off SIL also. Told her if she missed psycho so much then there was no reason for us to act like we're ok with each other.

Current day. We're all good with each other. MIL has said she stopped talking to psycho. SIL and I are good again and shes a BM in my sisters wedding, so we're friends on fb again b/c communication is just easier that way. Well, MIL saw that and has friend requested me. Hm. I havent accepted it yet but Im thinking I might.

I guess Im not really looking for advice (although Im always willing to take it). I just needed to vocalize it. Im totally over the psycho bit. If SILs or MIL wants to talk to her thats fine with me, as long as they keep zipped about Josh and I. We're none of her business. But Im thinking as long as MIL doesnt get all "motherly" on fb its not a big deal. (I have uncles that have commented on my statuses that I need to stop swearing or that I should stop saying certain things...thats what I mean by "motherly". They were quickly deleted).

Ok Im done

kevinandmonica2011

Ooooh boy... I remember this one.  Lol.  I never understand why it's so hard for some people to just. move. on.  Maybe if ex and mil/sil are still FB friends, she has had a chance to see some of your lovely wedding pics.  That oughtta put the nail in the "he might come back to me some day" coffin.  pfffff

Also- my phone has an "alarm only" option.  Phone does not ring for phone calls or texts, but alarm still goes off.  It's a beautiful thing.

raes19

Ahh ex-gf drama, something I know all too well. I'd say if you want to add MIL, go ahead, you can always delete her again if you need to. As for the ex, she is the loser that is wasting time worrying about someone else's life when she should be focusing on her own.