I'm ludachris315 the person that posted about the garter set... my ex created the username so i made a new one.
it sucks that he called off the wedding. we have been together over 5 years so he means the world to me and has always been there for me. but now that i look back at it i think it was for the best. he was incredibly impulsive and i accepted that. his impulsive decisions though have had lots of negative consequences. i have stood by each time but in reality i dont need him to drag me down. he was fired from his GA postion, suspended from grad school and more. im on a good path and dont need to worry about picking him up everytime he messes up. i love him dont get me wrong he is a great guy and means the world to me. but looking back i just dont think he is ready to get married despite him proposing, his interest in wedding planning and everything else. i think he basically just freaked out when he realized what was really happening.