We decided to have cupcakes instead of a cake for the reception. We went with mini's from Sugarbabes Cupcakes in Utica.
They were GREAT! We had a large variety of flavors, including gluten free chocolate. They were also open to trying out new recipes to accomodate us, I wanted a certian frosting that my grandfather used to love.
The mini cupcakes were ideal, they aren't over loaded with frosting, everyone gets two or three of them and they don't kill you with sugar.