Ok I have a little problem. My FI wants a small wedding, and I want a bigger one. As you know most woman dream about there wedding almost all of there life. He is saying that I am making it more about everyone else than him and I. How can I get him to agree with me on this. I dont want a HUGE wedding but I would like something more than just immediate family. I feel if I dont get what I want I will be setteling and i wont be happy unless I get what I want. HELP!!!