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Freaking out!!!!

csharpe44csharpe44 member
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So, I got an online RSVP today.  I click on the email and it is a relative of my his, some random girl, AND TWO OF HIS FRIENDS!!!  Who does this???  What part of 'Mr. & Mrs." on the envelope was confusing?  I immediately contacted my fiance and told him to take care of it, and I'm sure he will, but I am amazed at the audacity!  I could scream!
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  • pitbullmommy315pitbullmommy315 member
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    Yikes! I'm afraid of that happening, so I'm considering removing that whole online RSVP thing on my wedding website.
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  • kks4471kks4471 member
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    Absolutely crazy. Good luck to your FI, hope he can clear up the "miscommunication"! Not looking forward to receiving RSVPs.
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  • MCTD31MCTD31 member
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    I haven't gotten anything quite that bad, but I did have a couple RSVP with their two children who weren't invited. They say that putting "adult reception" on the invite is poor etiquette....but I'm starting to wish I did.

    I've also had another family RSVP with their daughter's boyfriend....also not invited. At the end of the day, it's easier for us to make room for a few extra people than upset our guests, but in your case....it's a wedding not a keg party! Leave your friends home.
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  • mek20mek20 member
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    We put adult reception right on our invites. I know it is not great ettiquette, but I'm happy I did because then there is NO question whether kids are invited. We have a website, but as I have learned from our STDs, nobody looks at it anyway...

    Sorry that this happened to you, luckily your FI will take care of it! Good luck!!!
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  • kevinandmonica2011kevinandmonica2011 member
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    Lol... Oh I remember this... And this is definitely one part of the process I don't miss. There is always somebody trying to push the limits. :)
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  • csharpe44csharpe44 member
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/local-wedding-boards_central-new-york_freaking-out?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Local Wedding BoardsForum:621Discussion:fc628126-b7bc-409f-93b3-c61914385373Post:36ad0ad5-32ed-4848-b1a2-c6faa9a60a61">Re: Freaking out!!!!</a>:
    [QUOTE]I haven't gotten anything quite that bad, but I did have a couple RSVP with their two children who weren't invited. They say that putting "adult reception" on the invite is poor etiquette....but I'm starting to wish I did. I've also had another family RSVP with their daughter's boyfriend....also not invited. At the end of the day, it's easier for us to make room for a few extra people than upset our guests, but in your case....it's a wedding not a keg party! Leave your friends home.
    Posted by MCTD31[/QUOTE]

    That's EXACTLY what I said!  If this was a BYOB event in my backyard I might not be as irritated!
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