Gratuitiy for our barternders is included in the wage we pay for them so our site says they don't put out tip jars for the bartenders but couples have been putting 'honeymoon fund' type of jars/boxes at the bar. We are having an open bar and were thinking of putting something like this. Where I come from, people like to put money towards the bar since it is free. Has anyone else done this? What is the wording that you put on the box? Thank you.