I am in need of help. My fiance is Catholic and I am not. We are getting married on 8/6/2011 in a vineyard. He would like to have a catholic priest for our wedding but we don't want to have a mass. We already know that this is going to be difficult trying to find a catholic priest that will marry outside of the church, without mass and to a couple who are not both catholic, but any advice would be helpful!!!!!