I am considering having a suprise wedding at our engagement party. I dont want a big wedding or bridesmaids and groomsmen, bouquet or a church ceremony. I really dont want a ceremony at all but Im afraid his fmaily will be disappointed if they were not included. So I guess my question is has anyone ever done this or been to a suprise wedding? I know a lot of people will say what if someone is mad they didnt come. My response to that is if our engagment party wasnt important enough to come to then are they really a good friend who should be complaining about missing out on our wedding??