Poll: Fears

mrs.dilligaf

So ladies, what are (or were) your biggest fears about the wedding day? 

Cake falling over?
Driver getting lost?
Dress not fitting?  

What are you worried about?

mahoganieyes

Fears: Horrible food, wedding crashers/some of fi's family members acting out, guest leaving earlier/not dancing and starting late.

Amisslis

I am getting married in December so I am worried about snow.

Ashes_3

My fears are that some ppl start drinking and acting ignorant, the cake not turning out how I wanted, my dress not fitting, and it raining!!!

caseyandlizzie

Rain...we're hoping to have the ceremony outside. Also, I'm doing a LOT of DIY projects and I'm afraid I might forget that stuff at home.

TeamBaby

My fears are that the food won't be very good, and that my reception venue decor won't look the way I have it planned in my head. 

clearheavens

You know how they say music and food are the #1 things people remember at a wedding?

Well, my fear is that I will pay a lot of money for a string trio or quartet, that will play classical pieces, and my Vietnamese guests (who will comprise 90%) will be like, "Whta's wrong with Vietnamese music?"  FI and I have non-Vietnamese tastes in music.  But the worse that can happen is judging my family, thinking we're trying to be white when we're not.

I am also afraid that since we're serving Italian-based American foods, that our guests will not enjoy it, and wonder, "Where's the 10-course meal?"  We will be bringing in just a few Asian dishes like fried rice, egg rolls, and pan fried noodles, but the majority will be American.  I hope I won't regret my decision.

econner42

My fear was rain...and it DID rain on our wedding!! I was devastated the entire week leading up to our wedding b/c the radar called for rain all day & we had intended to get married outside. I soon realized that I cannot control Mother Nature and she did what she wanted to do! So it rained, we had the ceremony inside and everything turned out okay in the end....b/c I was still the lucky bride walking down the aisle to the same incredible man - rain or no rain.

decobelle

Too big of a band for too small of a space.
Decor that is set up by someone else not looking like I want it to look.
Finding the right person to officiate the ceremony.

MexicoHelper

1.  My dress will be too tight and I will be horribly uncomfortable.
2.  My fake eyelashes will annoy me (even tho I love the look)
3.  It will go way too fast
4.  The weather will be crappy
5.  People won't dance
6.  My hair won't look good
7.  I will never find accessories that I am happy with regardless of how much I spend on them.
8.  Things (e.g., flowers, linens, food, etc.) will not turn out like I envisioned
9.  What will I do with all my time after the wedding is over?

....so...I am a worrier.

jollygreen

The fella and I are paying for ours, so my biggest worry is that the costs will get out of control.