Ok so , we are getting married outdoors in a gazebo (weather permitting) on April 9 2011, Reception will follow immediatly after indoors. The setting is very country/rustic! I plan for a very intimate feel, lots of candles etc. For the ceremony, neither of us are very religious and we plan on the entire ceremony focusing on our vows to one another, maybe a few readings (poems)...so now that I have set a picture for you...should ceremony music have lyrics or be instrumental???? I am so lost, it all sounds and looks amazing in my head but Idk if it will actually appear that way lol. I would LOVE to walk down the aisle to Making memories of us byt keith Urban, the lyrics would be perfect!!! Any thoughts on that? and If I do choose that, should the other songs have lyrics as well or be instrumental??? What nontraditional songs are you using????