Here's a question for you....

rachael7183

Do any of you feel like you are being annoying, for example, I have e-mailed my caterer/venue (everything is at one location for me, we are doing it at a hotel)...but I feel like she is sick of hearing my voice!  I am being really thankful and friendly but I have a lot of questions, and sometimes random questions pop up and I want to know the answer right away, lol...do any of you feel like this??

Melissa.hylton

YES! I think my bridesmaids are over me. LOL I have asked them to email me hair and make up photos for the salon, sent the day events timeline,emailed with a schedule to show up for hair and make up, email finished DIY products. I know there is only 1 who could careless and Ive vented on here about her before. 

mekiakoo

I think I'm always annoying when I want something like NOW. Haha.

Well I don't think I'm very annoying right now, but I was when we were in the middle of our house buying process. I think our relator is glad to be off the hook now. I was a maniac too so there's that.

colleenm18

I also think I am super annoying!  I was going to post this question to you all actually.

So last week I spoke with my photographer about our E pics and he said he would be finished editing them either over the weekend or early this week and then would send me the CD with all of the pictures.  So when is it ok for me to email him and ask him if he sent the CD yet? hahah

kmdeck26

I feel that way a lot too it is just so hard when you want to make sure everything is perfect, so you ask a ton of questions, double and triple check confirmations, and send a million emails. I feel like this is me all the way!

knjorgensen

I don't think I'm annoying -- I know I'm annoying! I don't care though. As much as I'm paying for these vendors, I want to make sure everything is the way it's supposed to be.

rachael7183

That's a relief... this seems so airheady of me, but I have so many bridesmaids...I have a MOH, and 12 bridesmaids...but for some reason I cannot get these numbers in my head right...and everytime I am put on the spot I literally have to name them all out ...I think I left out one bouquet and I just emailed my florist for the 10th time this week...I feel like such a space cadet...I really feel like my vendors have had enough of me!! 

k8888

13 girls in your wedding party??  I don't even think I have 13 girlfriends haha

Madisonpenny

Nope. The way I see it when it comes to vendors is I'm paying them, so if I have a question about something I would hope they have an answer for me.  If that makes me annoying, then whatever..

rachael7183

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[QUOTE]13 girls in your wedding party??  I don't even think I have 13 girlfriends haha
Posted by k8888[/QUOTE]

Yes, well, it would have been "rude" if I didnt ask specific people...

Carla1019

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[QUOTE]13 girls in your wedding party??  I don't even think I have 13 girlfriends haha
Posted by k8888[/QUOTE]

I KNOW i don't have 13 girlfriends. LOL!

At first I felt like I was bothering my vendors until some of them actually forgot certain details I told them earlier. So now I remember that they have other things going on and they are not as determined as we are to make sure everything is perfect.

I had to go over the limo pick-up / drop off schedule with the reception coordinator 3 times to make sure she got it. I would rather bug her than to have someone stranded.

BmoreBride311

Colleen - I think you can send a gentle reminder / question to your photog now. I had to pester mine a bit to get our e-pics and to get our photo guestbook proofs. I kinda feel like if I didn't pester, I'd still be waiting for them lol.

klwpaz

I feel this way, too. Every time I have to ask someone for something, and I try not to often. It's a little frustrating, though, to be paying someone for their services and not get calls/emails returned in a timely manner.

Anybody else have some social anxiety about an upcoming bridal shower or wedding? I love people... Visiting with 2-3 at a time is perfect. A whole room full of them watching me open gifts? Not really looking forward to it. Not to sound ungrateful, and I certainly want to see all of those people... just uncomfortable with crowds.

colleenm18

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[QUOTE]Colleen - I think you can send a gentle reminder / question to your photog now. I had to pester mine a bit to get our e-pics and to get our photo guestbook proofs. I kinda feel like if I didn't pester, I'd still be waiting for them lol.
Posted by BmoreBride311[/QUOTE]

Thanks for the advice!  I think I emailed him last friday so I will at least wait until tomorrow!

michelle11988

Colleen - definitely bug your photograph about your e-pics.

I am going to be a really annoying bride in the next month, I can tell it already.  I hate when people don't get back to me in a timely manner.  I get frustrated because my client base if I don't give them answers within a couple days, they call and scream at me and get pissed off that I haven't looked into their issues yet.

tszostek

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[QUOTE]Colleen - I think you can send a gentle reminder / question to your photog now. I had to pester mine a bit to get our e-pics and to get our photo guestbook proofs. I kinda feel like if I didn't pester, I'd still be waiting for them lol.
Posted by BmoreBride311[/QUOTE]


I had the SAME exact situation! He was fast with getting the sneak peaks out... but then getting all of the other pics he took on his website so we can look at them and then to get our photo guestbook proofs has taken forever!  I just finalized the guestbook yesterday! But if i didn't keep messaging him to ask.. i would still be waiting.. actually, i'm waiting for him to email me a few of the pictures.. i've been waiting for like 4 days and I need the pictures for my program! So i just messaged him again to see if he emailed them... lol I definitely feel like i get annoying!!